For all of the progress made by the human race there is so much ground to cover when it comes to he we relate to one another between the sexes. We put a man on the moon a lifetime ago and can fly anywhere on the p[planet. We now have advances in the medical field that were seemingly impossible to perceive at the turn of the millennium and possess smartphones that make Dick Tracey’s wristwatch television appear inept.
Sure, we seem to always get along in that early infatuation phase and have absolutely no problem when it comes to enjoying the pleasures that come from the union of our physical bodies, but when it comes to the psycho/emotional differences between us once the effect of those early phases have passed, we can count on those roadblocks in understanding to always give us that bumpy ride that we have all to often accepted as an inevitable part of our connection to the opposite sex.
This happens in all races, cultures and lifestyles and while those slight differences in the specifics will always be there, it is for the most part all the same.
From what I have observed and maybe I am wrong, but we as Black-American men more often seem to give up on seeking that deeper connection with our divine mate and have either given up on the dream of a happy relationship completely or only indulge in those sweet early parts of the connection and disappear once the signs of true intimacy or the beginnings of erosion begin to take place once the going gets rough. This I must say is not a hard set rule for everyone in the Black community but when comparing us to different cultures and races across the globe, we are sadly lacking in our determination to stay with our Sisters and support them even when they are not involved with us on a sexual level or as a potential romantic mate.
So the question looms: Have We Forsaken Our Sisters?
So what is the reason why we — more so than anyone else across the planet — don’t seem to care about this troubling gap that only appears to widen with every known unit and measure of time. Will this facilitate the destruction of our race? Surely it cannot be a thing that would be considered good and if the truth be told my questioning this phenomenon is not a precursor to setting up an argument in the “blame game” department. You know, blaming women for their shortcomings and oversights or doing the same to the men. No! I wouldn’t be so narrow minded to even BEGIN to think so backward because in the end it will be ALL OF US as a people who will ultimately suffer while others thrive and defeat their own obstacles that come to offset their positive upward ascension and path.
Our Sisters are hurt people! Our sisters NEED us men! There are certain things that need to be done automatically without her having to tell us and guide us! We are moving into a time where we MUST step up to the plate and knock that ball out of the park each and every time because overall we have fallen so far behind on the scorecards and appear to be a few short plays away from a certain loss and I know that God didn’t place us here on His earth to be LOSERS!
But more so than us men who are looked down on by those in the world who view us with disgust is our women who have always stuck by our side and have rooted for us when all others have given up on our chances for that come from behind win and have written us off as a people and left for DEAD!
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